Personal Musings

Though I love to make things up and be creative, sometimes I just want to write about my life, experiences, perceptions, travel blogs, and the like. This is a space to get to know me on a much more personal level.

This is also a space where my friends are free to write as well, when they have something to say!

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Bear Wiseman 10/14/25 Bear Wiseman 10/14/25

"I Have Never Done a Single Bad Thing in My Life"

“The man who does not self-reflect presents himself as a man who has never done harm, nor has ever been wrong.” Let’s explore that together.

Bear Wiseman 9/21/25 Bear Wiseman 9/21/25

What Being Accountable for Other People's Feelings Does and Does Not Mean

People seem to get quite confused over what it means to be accountable for someone else’s feelings, so Bear is here to clear that up.

Bear Wiseman 4/18/25 Bear Wiseman 4/18/25

Language Is Power, Not an Excuse to Dodge the Point

Words matter, but so does the message. This article explores how we balance linguistic precision with emotional honesty in conversations about patriarchy and justice.

Bear Wiseman 4/16/25 Bear Wiseman 4/16/25

I Was in a Patriarchal Relationship with My Body (So No Wonder it Fucking Hates Me)

Part 2 of the Broken Body series: an honest yet painful reckoning with how patriarchy shaped my relationship with my physical self.